Starting out in DD

The biggest Question I get asked is how to start out with Domestic Discipline. There is no easy answer to this but there are ways of starting that can make the DD journey a bit easier. For the purposes of this article I will write it as if you are already a couple and that you have decided that DD is what you both want.

The first main point and one that I cannot stress enough is communication. Without it, it will not work. This of course is true for any relationship but is even more important in Domestic Discipline relationships. 

Right from the beginning you must be open and honest with one another. I always think that the best way to start a DD life is to sit down together at the start and talk, talk and talk some more. There is no rush to get started and the more that is communicated the less likely there are to be problems later on.

The HOH from the beginning should make it clear what he wants and what he expects from the TIH. These first few discussions are the founation of what will be your DD life. ( Next weeks article will focus on rules)

The HOH may wish to discuss the 4 main rules that are often used in Domestic Discipline known as the 4 D's

DISHONESTY

DISRESPECT

DISOBEDIENCE

DANGEROUS

You should both explain what you want out of DD, what your fears or worries are and what DD means to you. Write things down if needed. Look on the internet and read as much as you possibly can about the subject and share this with your partner. This is where both the HOH and TIH can be completely honest with one another and especially in the case of the TIH can express anything that they wish to. 

It can be difficult. I know myself that speaking about Domestic Discipline to your partner can be hard but you can bet that your partner is feeling the same way!. This conversation could take a few evenings or a few weeks, there is no time frame! So once your have discussed and are both clear about what you want from DD it is time to take the next step..........

NEXT WEEK'S ARTICLE RULES AND WHERE TO BEGIN.

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DD and DD

I just wanted to explain a little more in depth about our Domestic Discipline relationship. We also have a Daddy Daughter Dynamic within that. I would like to stress at this point that this is not age play in anyway and is, like DD no way sexual.
To me both DD's go hand in hand with each other. Having rules and consequences is something that one would do with a teenager who lived at home. The two are very similar, indeed Domestic Discipline without knowing it can be very Daddy Daughter focused. When i am in a bratty phase i often feel as if i am being a rebelious teenager, kicking up against authority and i know that SirDD feels that he is acting like a father figure during these times.
The rules, discipline and consequences in a DD relationship to me are more or less the same as in a Daddy dynamic. I was often confused as to which DD i wanted and what i wanted exactly untill i realised that for us and me not knowing it, the two go hand in hand!
This adds even more depth to our relationship, in no way am i a child, i am a responsble, hard working adult. I know what i need and having both in our lives works brilliantly for us, Princess x

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